Today I had a fruitful and long talk with a close fren of mine.
once awhile a woman whine and expresses her resentment in the r/s.
at the end of the day, she is not looking for a solution to a problem. she is looking a for listening ear to hear her out and give her a push to move on again.
I was glad she gave me a chance to hear her out. hearing hw she was feeling unsure abt her r/s and having discussions abt it with her.
I challenged her uncertainies and insecurities.
I knew she loved this man, just that circumstances are not really gng their way.
After we parted, she sent me an sms: " I think you might be right. Its about finding someone who will work things out with you and there's no perfect one."
And for other women, they spent all their life looking for tt perfect one that prolly dnt exist.
hmmmmmm.....